Swingerdating.dk News and information from Swingersdating : THE NEW SWINGER LIFESTYLE DICTIONARY :
Bi-curious / Bi-friendly, Girl/Girl, etc: Most females in the Lifestyle are comfortable playing with other females, even if it is just flirtation or for show. Some couples limit their play to just girl/girl. It is uncommon for guys to be bi.
Cheating: Marital infidelity without your partner’s knowledge or consent.
Cruise Director: Term used to describe the individual who is in charge of the action at a swinging event.
Full Swap: Full swinging experience—no holds barred.
Full Swap, Same Room: Full swinging experience, but both partners must remain in the same room throughout.
Full Swap, Separate Rooms: Full swinging experience, but partners can be in separate rooms.
On Premise/Off Premise: Swinger clubs and parties designate their status as to whether sex is allowed.
Open Relationship: A term to describe a relationship arrangement in which both parties in a couple are permitted to engage with other individuals, with or without the knowledge of their primary partner.
Pillow Princess: Term used to describe a female who is interested in enjoying the swinging experience, but rarely reciprocates.
Playing: Term used to indicate sexual contact, whether soft or full. Couples typically invite other couples by asking if you want to go “play”.
Polyamorous: Having an intimate (caring) relationship with more than one partner. This is different than Swinging in that there are typically no emotional connections to other partners. Swinging involves friendship, but not intimacy.
Rules: For swingers, “the rules” are guidelines and principles agreed upon by couple for their participation in the lifestyle.
Safe Words: A nonsexual word that a couple uses to indicate whether or not they would like to swing with another couple, such as ‘dessert’. To say “I would like dessert tonight” would indicate an individual’s interest in swinging. Contrarily, to say “I will pass on dessert” would indicate that an individual would not be interested in swinging.
Same Room Only: Many couples have the rule that they will only play when they are in the same room together.
Soft Swap: A limited swinging experience where the line is typically drawn short of sexual intercourse.
Swinging: Also referred to as “The Lifestyle”, swinging is a nonmonogamous behavior in which singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.
Swinging Scale: The range of acceptable swinging activities, as determined by a couple and/or an individual.
Unicorn: Term used to describe a single female—also referred to as a “mythical creature”—who engages in sexual activity with another couple. There is no known male equivalent.
Vanilla: Term used to describe people who do not participate in the Swinging involves friendship, but not intimacy